My Divorce Story – By Damien D:
I have been with my partner for 4 years, married for 11 months. 3 weeks ago she told me that she is seeing somebody else. She says something changed over the last few months. She says she still loves me but is not in love with me.We have a beautiful son who is 16 months old. I can’t believe what has happened to my family so quickly. You can’t force somebody to want to be with you, but surely she should have tried at least.
My dreams have been shattered and I can’t do a thing about it. What the hell am I going to do? I know I must move on but I feel like I am in a deep hole and can’t get out. I am going to have to see my wife, who I can’t help being in love with, enjoying a new life with a new man. Sorry to sound so pathetic, but I can’t help myself at the moment. How do I stop the pain I am feeling.
I saw her being dropped of at our house by the new man in flash sports car. I could have been physically sick, and couldn’t stop shaking. I thought I had improved a little but this has made me realize what a bloody mess I’m in. I just don’t know what to do to move on and lessen the agony I’m in? I suppose time is the only thing that will help but at the moment I can’t see a way out.
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