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Should I Stay Married For My Children’s Sake?

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Good day Phoenix Men, I know this may seem like a silly question but is it wrong to stay married and together just for the sake of the children? I am in such a mess right now, I don’t know what to do? Nine months ago, I left my wife after she told me she did not love me any more.

I lost all my self respect and begged her to take me back, which she eventually did.We went to counseling to try and get things back to some kind of normality, and for a while things seemed to be Keep Reading

Wife Looses Weight Then Leaves Me!

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Thank you, Phoenix Men for allowing me to get my troubles of my chest, My name is Mason and this is my story so far. My wife and I were childhood sweethearts, you could say, having met and been going steady since our early teen years.

I am now 35 years old and three weeks ago my wife told me that she has changed and doesn’t love me any more, she has since moved out of our family home. My world has totally fallen apart, we have a 14-year-old daughter who at the moment is spending equal time between us … Keep Reading

Narcissist Wife Is So Evil & Nasty

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Hi everybody, I am in desperate need of advice here. I would really appreciate any insights from people who have had to deal with similar situations. I was am 36 years old, married for 13 years with three children 12, 8 and 7. Things started going badly wrong two years ago when my wife started going off the rails. I spent 14 months with her telling me that she loved me, didn’t love me, wanted a divorce and didn’t want a divorce. She started doing all the usual stuff, out clubbing every night etc. I was devastated and made massive Keep Reading

Wife Committed Adultery With Guy Next Door

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Advice required please, my wife left me a couple of months ago and is now seeing the guy that lived next door to us for many years. She told me the marriage was over and that there was no one else, but less than a week later she is declaring her love for this guy.

She has now told me she has slept with him, but not before she told me we were finished, therefore in her mind it is not adultery.

My question is, I would have thought that this was still adultery as we are still legally married.Can Keep Reading

Holidays For Single Men Travellers Over 40

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When thinking of Thailand, many of us travelers blanch with images of the hectic capital city of Bangkok parading through our minds. Indeed as a solo traveler I found Bangkok to be so overflowing with people, traffic, sights and sounds that it was truly an assault on my senses.

Yet Thailand is a country of diversity, and thankfully, located in the north is a city light years apart from the intimidating hustle and bustle of Bangkok. I am of course referring to the delightful Chiang Mai, the capital of northern Thailand.

There are three ways of getting to Chiang Mai … Keep Reading