Hi all, well, as it says above, it would appear I am now just joining the ranks of the separated. I don’t have a clue what to do. My wife of 15 years decided to tell me on her 40th birthday, during a phone call, that our marriage was over, that she has been unhappy for years, and that I don’t listen to what she says, or understand her. Well, I obviously don’t understand her, because she caught me out of the blue with this call. My concern now, however, is what happens now.
I’m still living in the family home with her and our two children (8 and 11), but am so unhappy with the news that am finding it difficult to sleep, and generally function. I am not sure whether to leave the house, as I have heard conflicting reports on what happens when the first person leaves, but it is really hard staying. I can’t afford to find different accommodation, as I am continuing to pay all of the bills, incl. the mortgage.
Is there anything I need to do?
Thanks guys Vinny