Hi Phoenix Men! My name is Craig, does anyone have any experience in regard to an ex-girlfriend jumping straight into a new relationship the moment that they’ve got rid of their partner? Is it not working out for them? Or was the grass actually greener for them?
My ex-girlfriend waited for about a week after I left, and since then has been finding ways for her new guy to spend time with my kids at the expense of the time I was meant to be with them!
Her new lover waited until I moved out of the family home and then left his wife and his two children, but I’m not sure if he is living in my house as I don’t know what car he drives, so it’s a bit difficult to tell.
According to my ex, he is apparently a “nicer man” than me, which i find a fantastic piece of twisted logic. All I want to do is be with my children, and she calls me a bad father, yet he leaves his children and is somehow a better man than me, that’s according to her anyway!
However, it looks as if she is “serious” about him which is a good thing as i would hate to be going through all this heartache and mental torture for her to be just having a bit of fun, she was kind enough to tell me that she “doesn’t hate me” although I think that she’s got a bit of a strange way of showing it.
Am I being bitter and twisted for hoping that they both fall flat on their faces? I was wondering if anyone else has experienced a similar situation that ended in reconciliation with their ex-partners, and if so how long did it take, and what was your reconciliation process or story?
I need some optimism to get me through the next few weeks, as the thought of my ex with this new guy is pushing me further towards clinical depression. I really hope someone has words of wisdom for me, thanks for listening to my story.