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Divorced man at 45 now what?

Hi, I am recently divorced at 45 and feel as if it is now too late for me to ever find a loving partner now. What do you suggest I can do to find someone loving. I have never lived alone before and it is killing me.

My wife left me after 17 years together. She told me 5 weeks before that she doesn’t love me and hasn’t for years but other than saying it isn’t my fault cannot tell me why. She said she wouldn’t even have told me if i hadn’t forced her to. She insists there is no one else involved. 3 weeks before that we moved house and took on a much bigger mortgage. I am not coping very well with this at all.

Thanks in advance.

Submitted By Jimmy

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  1. Whilst it might be hard to sustain love, it’s never too late to find love. My simple guide to finding love again is to ensure that you’re fully healed. You need to let out all the bad blood of the previous relationship as it can go on to ruin future ones if retained.

    Once you’re sure you’re fully healed, you can then put yourself out there. Go on outings, volunteer, hang out and have friends introduce you to other friends. You’re very likely to find that loving person in your social circle, so keep expanding it.

    Another thing you need to do is to work on yourself. Women are excellent body language and mood readers. They’re attracted to positive energy, so it becomes important to stay happy, radiate bliss and live a healthy lifestyle that women will find interesting.

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