Hi Phoenix Men, I need some advice from other guys that may have been in a similar situation to my own. I split with my ex-wife last May, I undertook and completed a do-it-yourself divorce by December.
Everything was going fine with regard to access to my two boys aged 12 & 7 on alternate weekends. The ex-wife moved a new man into the family home a week after I left. I myself met someone new in November, and we got on very well, so I thought I would introduce her to the boys. I told my boys to tell me if they liked my new girlfriend. As it happens, we all got on great and my youngest son kept telling me to let her know I could keep her.
The ex-wife found out about my new partner and about me introducing my two boys to her and ever since has restricted my access to my sons. I have not seen the two boys for five weeks now and last night when they eventually returned my call, my youngest son said he did not want to see me and my eldest son said he wanted to stay with his smaller brother. I have pleaded with my ex-wife to talk to them, but she insists she is just respecting the wishes of the boys.
When talking on the phone, my youngest son kept whispering to his mum asking her what to say.
I am so angry and frustrated about this, it is just not right, and I do not want to become a statistic. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for hearing me out. Danny.