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Wife Looses Weight Then Leaves Me!

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Thank you, Phoenix Men for allowing me to get my troubles of my chest, My name is Mason and this is my story so far. My wife and I were childhood sweethearts, you could say, having met and been going steady since our early teen years.

I am now 35 years old and three weeks ago my wife told me that she has changed and doesn’t love me any more, she has since moved out of our family home. My world has totally fallen apart, we have a 14-year-old daughter who at the moment is spending equal time between us … Keep Reading

Narcissist Wife Is So Evil & Nasty

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Hi everybody, I am in desperate need of advice here. I would really appreciate any insights from people who have had to deal with similar situations. I was am 36 years old, married for 13 years with three children 12, 8 and 7. Things started going badly wrong two years ago when my wife started going off the rails. I spent 14 months with her telling me that she loved me, didn’t love me, wanted a divorce and didn’t want a divorce. She started doing all the usual stuff, out clubbing every night etc. I was devastated and made massive Keep Reading

Wife Committed Adultery With Guy Next Door

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Advice required please, my wife left me a couple of months ago and is now seeing the guy that lived next door to us for many years. She told me the marriage was over and that there was no one else, but less than a week later she is declaring her love for this guy.

She has now told me she has slept with him, but not before she told me we were finished, therefore in her mind it is not adultery.

My question is, I would have thought that this was still adultery as we are still legally married.Can Keep Reading

How Do I Heal A Broken Heart From Cheating?

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Hi Phoenix men, my name is Adam, I need a little help as I am going down hill fast.

My ex partner has been having an affair with my cousin. Whilst we have been separated I have been living at my Aunts house, my aunt is The mother of the man my ex partner is having the affair with.

I am really down & want to know when or if it will get better? I had my children with me at my Aunts house after school the other day, which was great.

My ex partner picked them up, and I Keep Reading

Wife Left Me For My Best Friend

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I’d really appreciate some views or advice please as I just don’t know what to do for the best. Sorry it’s a long one: My wife left me for BF (ex-friend of mine) about a year ago and we’re now divorced. I kept the kids (9, 7 and 4) and although she doesn’t give me any maintenance money she only works part time and still comes to my house to take and collect the kids from school so that I can go to work, so effectively I employ her as a nanny.

This means that they see her virtually every … Keep Reading