How to get my wife back after separation?

My Divorce Story – By Fallon:

She loves me as a friend but not as a husband! My wife walked out on me last month. We have been married for 8 Months (No kids), living together for 5 years, in a relationship a total of 8 years. She says that her love for me has blown hot and cold for some years now, but could never speak to me about it. When she was blowing hot we got married, now she’s blowing cold and has left me because the old feelings have come back. She is thinking of renting a flat with some friend’s and she wants to stop paying towards our joint mortgage. This is really hurting me because she won’t speak to me or tell me whats going on. We only see each other when she wants something from the house or I request a meeting to try and find out what she is thinking. How can I win her back? Please help me.

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2 thoughts on “How to get my wife back after separation?

  1. I am in the same boat as you. My wife left me 6 months ago with the “I love you I’m just not in love with you anymore. They won’t speak to you about it because that would just make them feel guilty if they told you the truth, because it would hurt you.

    My wife just recently came out with the real reason and apparently it was all my fault. If you don’t want to divorce her don’t. Let her do all the work.

    Nowadays it doesn’t make any different who initially files for divorce, so if she wants one, let her do it. It will just be too upsetting for you to be doing something that you just don’t want to do. As for winning her back its impossible unless she really wants to be with you.

  2. I know its hard because i also can not accept the fact that my marriage is over, I am willing to try again but my wife says she cant because she has grown apart from me what ever that means.

    I cry all the time and i am finding it so hard but the gang on this site do help so try to tune in once in a while, keep smiling hope everything turns out alright. By the way i have told my wife i don’t want a divorce she is not happy as she wants me to divorce her.

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